Love @ First Sight
I don’t usually write about relationships. Maybe I’ve comment on it before in my blogs. Anyways, I was talking to George last night about relationships and knowing about 'the one' . He told me that the first time he meet his wife, he knew she was 'the one'! I thought that was so sweet. However, it makes me wonder how can one possibly know by just lo-oking at the particular person? Is it a feeling? Is it the way that person connects to you?
Ps.. haha.. I thought this pic was so cute n' so true. =)
I guess this is what you called true love! haha..
I realize that almost every married couples who say “I knew this was the girl/guy I was suppose to marry from that first time or by the second day/weeks-whatever.. you get the point. They’re married, so of course that person is the one. Maybe it’s the giddy feelings in a relationship that turns into the reality of love and don’t get me wrong, I think this is *wonderful*. =) Wish that could happen to me w/out any doubt of course. How about the relationships that don’t work out? Do they talk about it? Why else would you have gone on a second date or continue the relationship for a few months or even years- why not marry right away if you are so sure if that person is “the one”? Or maybe b/c you aren’t sure and thought it would be worth giving a chance, which mean you didn’t know that the person is really “the one” – but you just assume right?
Maybe one in a million, but honestly I don’t really believe there is love @ first sight, maybe lust @ first sight. If you are fooled into thinking it’s love then you don’t understand chemistry and don’t realize that it’s entirely differ from love. You cannot truly love someone until you spend time w/ them, get to know them, accept them for who they are and still have strong feelings for them. Anyways, what the hell do I know? I don’t even know how it’s really feels like w/out the fear of getting hurt! Nor to I wanna experience it! Oh well.. we’ll see...
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