Are guys as insecure as girls?
Wow! It’s not even 2am and I’m home already. Yup, another very short day at work! =) I’m loving it! 2 more night and it’s the weekends! It’s too early to sleep, guess I’ll just write something quick here. I’m listening to 94.9, gosh all these love jams-so relaxing! Aright, maybe I don’t hate my job, but I do enjoy it. Of course, it can be stressful at times but I guess I’ve learned to control it a bit. It’s actually not that bad, I don’t really have someone that really watches me. My supervisor works during the day and she’s hecka cool and real. I work w/ a bunch guys, so basically I don’t really have to watch what I say and we crack a lot of jokes. I get to wear whatever and I don’t care, so I wear basically my gym clothes. Who cares! I get to listen to anything I want, since I’m usually the only one is the office. Though I have to admit that my co-workers think I have weird taste in music. One minute it’s R&B, then Country, 80’s, Chinese, Korean and then back to my R&B and Hip-Hop. I think I gotta to the point where I’m just comfortable. =)Anyways, funny thing happened at work. I was eating a salad at my desk , as usual one of the supervisors brought me some paperwork. Out of the blue, he suddenly mentioned that he’s getting big. What? I didn’t say anything or even notices anything. You gotta understand that I’ve always thought he’s one of the confident types- that doesn’t care what people think. Suddenly for him to say that just makes me think that everyone is in fact is insecure about something, even when we think they aren’t. Go figure, I do know that guys are unsecured about something; after all they are human right. But my question is that -are they as insecure as girl? Don’t laugh or think it’s a stupid question. Really, just maybe guys are more insecure than us gals; it’s just that they don’t show it like we do. Is it b/c it makes them seem weak. Maybe we are as strong as they are or even stronger and why is that when we are confident as they are, strong women or a Bitch, as they would refer it. Just b/c we’re not willing to take someone’s else bullshit, we are consider as bitches and they are consider desirables. Not that there’s nothing wrong w/ being a Bitch- you know “Babe in total control of herself.” This reminded me of a book I read over a year ago called “Why men prefer bitches?” Something like that, don’t laugh b/c it actually a pretty good book w/ common sense things that we (girls) tend to forget in a relationship. I know, I thought it sounded a bit crazy when Jane give me the book to read, but I enjoy it. Like Dr. Phil would say life is a game and it’s really about how you play the game! I’ll just leave it at that.
Good night ya.
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